Two different people living together
isn’t a joke because we all are
different and we tend to build our
own worlds and fiercely defend our
views.So, relationships aren’t meant
to be easy. Though you find some
common ground with your partner
before starting a relationship, it
doesn’t mean that arguments or
difference of opinions will never
arise.According to relationship
experts, such couples tend to
understand contextual behaviour and
they are ready to forgive actions
which are just a result of temporary
tough situations.
Generally, when two people have
chemistry between them and when
their situations are favorable for
union, it is very natural to fall in
love and start a relationship. Experts
say that sometimes, doing things
together or facing a tough situation
together can also give rise to
feelings and can strengthen the
bond between two people.
Firstly understanding contextual
behaviour is important. In any
relationship, some situations tend to
be negative in nature and if your
relationship survives that period, it
will last forever. Stress, financial
losses, and diseases are some of the
bad phases and they may impact a
person’s behaviour in a negative way.
Only when you realise that negative
contextual behavior is natural to any
person, you will stop judging your
partner. Arguments is such
situations will produce hurting words
because both the partners tend to
get carried away by the situation. As
an understanding partner, if you can
simply treat such contextual
behaviour as something that is
influenced only by a tough situation,
you can make it further in your
relationship.
Never carry a grudge. Apart from
accepting such situational behaviour,
it is also important ‘not to have an
axe to grind’. Carrying a grudge or
staying hurt for long may be very
unhealthy for a relationship.